Toddlers & Tiaras–Part 3

That the father of Jonbenet Ramsey’s says that Pageants like, “Toddlers and Tiaras” is ‘Bizarre’ seems an unusual, if not odd thing for him to say in this ABC news YouTube. Was she not a wonderful and successful pageant girl on television? More, do you think because of her beauty and fame, the kind of end she came to, which is unknown, was the result of some strange act that involved that beauty and fame? In other words, are these children who participate in Pageants vulnerable to various kinds of exploitation, and in this case murder because of that television exploitation? Significantly, is this a kind of abuse of a child, to allow them the ‘Bizarre’ act of being in Pageants like “Toddlers and Tiaras?”

Shari Karney: It is my personal opinion that Jonbenet Ramsey’s participation in the kiddie beauty pageant circuit led to her death and was linked to pornographic pictures being taken of her that went too far. One of the factors in the autopsy report was that the child died with a garret around her neck. A garret is used by adults to cause a loss of consciousness to increase orgasm. And I think that they ended up choking her to death when simulating the garret use in a pornographic photo.

For Jonbenet’s father to say that Toddlers & Tiara is bizarre strikes me as bizarre. Why wasn’t it grotesque when he let his own daughter be in this kind of child exploitation—“beauty pageant.”

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Toddlers & Tiaras–Part 1


In this first question, and here the question references the two videos from Anderson’s hit reality show “Toddlers and Tiaras,” Do you believe that “Toddlers and Tiaras” is adding to the sexualization of children? As the first video notes in the short discussion with Moms, some say there is nothing wrong with this kind of thing, as it is harmless and just fun. In the second video, the viewer sees audience reaction. Obviously, the audience members enjoy the display and actions of the children. Will you comment?

Shari Karney: Showing children in scantily clad, “Pretty Woman Prostitute Outfits,” “Lady Gaga Outfits with attempt to show 3-year-old Child Cleavage,” turns children into adult sex objects. These children are being judged at 3 and 4 and 5 years old, based on their sexuality, beauty, sexiness and then we all are astonished when there is so much sexual abuse of young children. The other part of this that is so disturbing is that we value girls based on their sexiness, beauty, make-up, spiked heels, clothes, spray tans, and we don’t value them or show them as valued girls that are based on genuine qualities such as intelligence, compassion, athletic ability, science talent, artistic sense. We are saying if you are a girl, you are only of interest to us—famous, given a lot of attention—if you are sexy. Remember these kids are 3, 4, 5, 6., 7.

Many find this “Toddlers and Tiaras” reality show a case of children and values—gone wrong. What are we asking of our little children? What’s valuable to us? We’re teaching makeover and boobs? Is this display of children a form of exploitation, and in terms of values held by a parent, what are we told about the values they hold?

Shari Karney: I’ll give you an example, one of these little girls in “Toddlers and Tiaras” is on a no-more-than sixteen hundred calories a day diet and has lost ten pounds over the summer. She is six years old. Furthermore they are giving these children ldren energy drinks, it consists of caffeine and sugar. On Anderson Cooper, they showed one of the kids drinking the juice, and then Anderson Cooper took a few swigs and said himself, it was the sugariest drink. It was so much so that his hands were shaking. The drink is called, “GoGo Juice.” It’s made of one part Mountain Dew and one part Red Bull. It’s bad because, children have natural energy. But these children not only dress as sexual adults, but they are drinking adult energy drinks to be more energetic, provocative, sexy- cute. Why aren’t the drinks to increase their intelligence, or something healthy to help them grow up and be strong. We are making these children into caffeinated-sugar-high-wound-up Barbie Dolls. Pull the string and you get a performing doll. What message does this give to the little girl in Indiana, or Ohio, or anywhere?

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